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I certainly hope it is a light I see at the end of the tunnel and not just a mirage. The last five days have been very interesting to say the least.
On Saturday my Eagle called me and, yes, I ended up going to him. I am sorry I cannot deny my true self. Anyway I found out much has happened in the last couple of months and some of it very distressing. The worst was hearing that he had fallen, breaking two of his ribs in three places, spent five hours in the hospital on a Morphine drip and then drove himself the thirty miles home. I was furious he did not call me but, because the idiots at the hospital contacted his wife, who refused to come, he was afraid to call me and have all hell break loose.
The whole sum of it is more money has gone missing and communication is not happening. Today she made another "raid" on the house removing more of her clothes etc. When he saw this he actually sent her an email telling her "tomorrow would be the prime opportunity to gather all of her ex-boyfriends and remove the rest of the crap from the house." He has to do a presentation out of town and will be gone all day. He did request over the weekend she meet him Monday morning to file for divorce, of course she did not show. Now he has to wait until December 20th to be able to file without her signature.
All I have to do is hope she does not move back in before then. We have been in constant communication but, I have told him in no uncertain terms that he has to get his head on straight before their is any hope of there being an "us". She has messed him up royally and he needs to come to terms with a lot of things before he is ready for another relationship and I refuse to be with him simply so he will not be alone.
On Saturday my Eagle called me and, yes, I ended up going to him. I am sorry I cannot deny my true self. Anyway I found out much has happened in the last couple of months and some of it very distressing. The worst was hearing that he had fallen, breaking two of his ribs in three places, spent five hours in the hospital on a Morphine drip and then drove himself the thirty miles home. I was furious he did not call me but, because the idiots at the hospital contacted his wife, who refused to come, he was afraid to call me and have all hell break loose.
The whole sum of it is more money has gone missing and communication is not happening. Today she made another "raid" on the house removing more of her clothes etc. When he saw this he actually sent her an email telling her "tomorrow would be the prime opportunity to gather all of her ex-boyfriends and remove the rest of the crap from the house." He has to do a presentation out of town and will be gone all day. He did request over the weekend she meet him Monday morning to file for divorce, of course she did not show. Now he has to wait until December 20th to be able to file without her signature.
All I have to do is hope she does not move back in before then. We have been in constant communication but, I have told him in no uncertain terms that he has to get his head on straight before their is any hope of there being an "us". She has messed him up royally and he needs to come to terms with a lot of things before he is ready for another relationship and I refuse to be with him simply so he will not be alone.
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*hugs*
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Hugs back
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Good luck to your and your eagle.
Shal
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Yanno what I really want right now is for him to have the chance to be happy and get his head on straight. Hopefully, after that, there can be an us.