OMG please tell me that you and your brother are quite young and the girl has not been carrying a torch for decades... that would be more than blech!

The one person from high school (actually from elementary school on) who I really needed to clear the air with... we did via email before all the facebook bull. He was the boy who announced to the entire school during lunch how my father had died. We were only in the 5th grade and it was not a good scene.