Well, there could be many answers. I'm guessing that you haven't met the right person (yet) and have too mucch self-respect to settle for just anyone.
There could be envy involved in such talk. I know I'm envious of women our age who are independent, despite what I love about the life I have. Every choice involves something one didn't do. Very few people are fully comfortable in their lives. As for being blunt and direct - it's difficult for others to deal with because there is so little of it in life. I think that one is the way one is - people who choose to count themselves your friends shouldn't be expecting you to be other than you are.
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Well, there could be many answers. I'm guessing that you haven't met the right person (yet) and have too mucch self-respect to settle for just anyone.
There could be envy involved in such talk. I know I'm envious of women our age who are independent, despite what I love about the life I have. Every choice involves something one didn't do. Very few people are fully comfortable in their lives. As for being blunt and direct - it's difficult for others to deal with because there is so little of it in life. I think that one is the way one is - people who choose to count themselves your friends shouldn't be expecting you to be other than you are.