I am sick of this!

I am sick and tired of being told to dumb down! I am sorry. I am a reasonably intelligent female and if the male population can not handle a woman with more than two operating brain cells than I am not interested.

My brother's "well meaning" friend has been IMing me and he tells me I need to loosen up and not be so smart. This because I do not want nor will I be his "computer ho," as he put it. Gods is that all men are interested in? I honestly do not understand this train of thought... I am not what I would term beautiful by any means and I shop in plus size fashions so, I do not fit the societal norm for acceptability yet, it seems I am an object for men to get release. Brains are not a requirement, emotions are forbidden and communication is limited to one subject. Errr!!!!