Thank you my dear little beloved! I too hope he is able to remain sober through this. I actually have a calendar to mark off the days until he can legally divorce her without her signature. Thirty-one days and counting. I know why I have never married and will never marry unless it is him. He is my soul mate. That may sound hokey, but it is true our lives have crossed paths since I was 17 years old and we have been integrally entwined for the last 8 years. He is the man I am meant to be with if not in this life then in the next. Irish